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EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
Height5' 2" (157 cm)
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorSilver
Hair LengthShort
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s), Visible tattoo
Bra size44 / 100
Cup sizeB
My attractiveness:Attractive


Relationship StatusSeparated
Has childrenChildren don't live with me
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityYour Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

Employment StatusPart-time
Annual income$25,000 - $50,000

Looking For

Must haveIntelligence, Humor, Wit
My perfect matchSapiophile with humor. Easy going. Drama free. Highly sexual.
Our first datedinner and conversation.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byDomination / Submission (D&S)
My role isDominant
I live the lifestyleOnly when I can
Experience levelIntermediate
I enjoyBondage, Branding, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Collar & lead / leash, Confinement / caging, Cross dressing, Defilement, Electro torture, Enemas / douching / klismaphilia, Femdom, Foot / shoe worship, Genital torture, Hair pulling, Hot wax, Physical humiliation, Piercing, Sensory deprivation, Spanking, Suspension, Verbal humiliation, Voyeurism, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter wasMaybe later

Sexual Activities

Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Fetish clubs, Adult theaters, Intimate gatherings in my home, Munches

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isMy favorite
Anal sex isLove ass play, but not penetration
Sex toys:Butt plugs/probes, Clitoral stimulator, Cock ring, Dildos/Vibrators, Strap-ons
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Anal penetration, animals, children, ******, scat

Spanking Preferences

Role:I prefer doing the spanking
Turns me on:I'm always in the mood
I like to wear:Paddles,crops, hand
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Rulers / Martinet, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Stinging

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Total domination all the time
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Many Diverse Personas
I like to wear:Casual straight wear, Lingerie and stockings, Corsets, Leather
Ideal session:Obedience and compliance.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:When we first started chatting you were so open and wanted to please me. Your willingness to submit to my demands are what drew me. Your potential is what has kept me. The words that flow across the messages and emails filled me with delight.
You spoke of ownership and wanting to please me. You asked over and over what could you do to prove your worthiness. I told you that giving me your free will would please me.
We talked about so many things and your intellect peeked my interest even more. I asked myself how could this man be so successful in his vanilla life and want to be owned in his private life? Human nature gives us imaginations and mine was in overdrive to know you better.
You had watched the 50 shades movie and wanted to be used. I laughed so hard when we talked about the movie. I had never finished watching it but you said you watched it over and over. Real life is not a movie. Real life is vastly different. Movies are for entertainment. A subs life is for pleasure, mine.
We talked about safe words remember? I said no means no. No drama needed, no cross communication or misunderstandings. Simple, direct and easy. You wanted safe words to cover anxiety. We discussed role play and how scenarios would work out for us.
Your ability to be open minded and seeking to keep my pleasure as your focus gave us the opportunity to explore boundaries. To discover limits and limitations. We agreed on many things and decided to put fact to the chat.
Meeting you was the very beginning of every conceivable delight I have ever imagined. We knew this would work. We had no doubts that finding sexual pleasure was ours.
We talked for awhile and we both knew our next step was to put practice to our thoughts our fantasies. We arranged for a motel room. There were no awkward moments for us, as we fit hand and glove.
I had you strip your clothes off. Then you slowly removed mine. You knew I had brought my toy bag and humbly asked what did I want. Your learning my demands, was imminent, the time to show and tell was upon us. Your impatience was good for us both I think.
I went and pulled out my harness and you put it on me. For your first time I decided to use the smaller dildo. You wanted to touch, and I allowed you some touching but knew you wanted to be fucked. You sucked my dildo getting it well lubed and I had you bend over. I teased your ass and rimmed you. Felt you quivering like a kid in a toy shop.
You begged so prettily. I placed the head right against your sweet little rosebud and …..

To be continued