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i have been chatting here for quite a few years and made lots of friends.

my name is dave, i live near Portsmouth in UK....i'm 38, a short stocky man with a shaved head and heavily into kink.

for as long as i can remember i have fantasized about cross dressing and tying up games. later in life i learned about the terms bondage and bdsm and that intrigued me greatly.

my first girlfriend was happy to play with handcuffs but that was her limit.

second, third, fourth etc weren't interested.

now in my late thirties i have met someone who i love with all my heart who shares all off my secret interests.

funny thing is she is the mother of one of my friends.

we like to switch and experiment and play and i'm happier now then i have been in forever.

found a soulmate that will tie me up....loves being tied up....will flog me....loves being flogged.....has a foot fetish to equal my own and not only accepts my cross dressing but encourages it.

all in all, pretty chuffed with life and happy chatting to you friendly kinksters about it :)

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageEnglish
BuildStocky
Height168 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorBrown
Hair LengthBald
Facial HairShaved
Best featureSmile
Body ArtVisible tattoo, Other
Health ConditionNo special condition
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average
CircumcisedNo
My AttractivenessBelow average

Situation

Relationship StatusSingle
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsWith parent(s)
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityYour Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationHigh school Diploma - GED or equivalent
SpecialtySales / Marketing
Employment StatusFull-time
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job TitleRetail Team Leader

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Sensitivity, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchA Goddess I can worship. Somebody that will love me and allow me to do the same.
But before then just somebody to chat with and have a laugh...

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byA combination of all, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA mentor / teacher
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyFoot / shoe worship
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasAsk and i'll tell

Fetishes

FetishesCrossdressing, High Heels, Lace / Lingerie, Panty, Pantyhose / Stockings

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:I don't really care for sex
Sex isNot that important I'd rather cuddle
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkDepends on the person
Night life:Night clubs, Raves, Intimate gatherings in my home, Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexEvery once in a while
Oral Sex isOverrated
Anal sex isNever tried it
Sex toys:Dildos/Vibrators
Size matterNo, Not at all
"Off Limits":Water sports, anything with animals or children

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyAsk me and i/ll tell
Fantasy sex partner:Rachel Riley

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Moderate with hand or implement
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
I like to wear:i have a lingerie fetish and i like to wear stockings
Include sex and orgasm:Sometimes
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over a chair / bed / desk, Over the masters lap, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Handcuffed to bed
Implement:Hand, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Newspapers, Belt
Response:Compliance or Humble Silence
Pain level:Stinging

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:Depends on my mood
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Strict teacher / Authoritarian
I like to wear:High heels and a business suit, Lingerie and stockings, PVC
Ideal session:Tell later
Ultimate femdom fantasy:Tell later