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62 yo recent widow seeking Dom/Master

I was happily married for 16 yrs. A long illness stole him from me. Even though we were best friends he was not into this. I had read many books through the years and decided I would try to find someone who isn this time. Love spoiling the person I am with because what goes around comes around.

I am an artist who paints Petroglyphs and Pictographs which are cave carvings and paintings. I began creating them because everyone has an ancestor who did so in the far past.

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height178 cm
Eye ColorDepends on my mood
Hair ColorBlonde
Hair LengthShoulder length
Best featureEyes
Body ArtPierced... but only ear(s)
Bra size46+ / 105+
Cup sizeC
My AttractivenessAttractive

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsNo
Housing SituationAll is calm
Living ArrangementsWith roomate(s)
Wants to RelocateYes
AvailabilityAnytime / Anyplace
Has a carNo

Education & Employment

Job TitleArtist and Student

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Good Looks, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Money, Power, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchHave sense of humor but practical jokers not invited. Intelligent, a sense of honour but don't take life too seriously. Willing to go to outdoors preparedness show one weekend and an art museum the next.
Our first dateWe can discuss it. Perhaps play darts or pool even though I don't drink. A picnic might be fun.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isSubmissive
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Power exchange, Sensory deprivation, Spanking
Open To Photos & VideosNo
My most pleasurable encounter wasBeing tied up then slightly spanked with blindfold on. Also my husband tied me up then proceeded to nurse on my nipples until I was going out of my mind. They became sloop sensitive it was difficult to wear my bra the next day"

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:A few times a month
Sex isAwesome but not a priority
Most partners at once:Threesome M/M/F
Dirty talkI've never tried it
Night life:Regular Bars, Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexI've never tried it
Oral Sex isIt's OK, but I prefer penetration
Anal sex isLove ass play, but not penetration
Sex toys:Ben Wa balls, Dildos/Vibrators, Vibrating eggs/bullets
Size matterSometimes, depends on the person
"Off Limits":Penetration of my a as. If it is done too hard I will begin to hurt inside the colon then have to walk around for 1/2 hour before it begins to slow down. It isn't fun at all. Kids, animals, water sports, extreme pain

Sexual Fantasies

Sexual fantasyNot sure will have to discuss it with you. John Norman's Imaginative Sex has some awesome ideas in it.
Fantasy locationTrain, On the beach
Fantasy sex partner:Someone who loves and cares about me as much as I do them.

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Erotic Spanking
Role:I prefer being spanked
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness
I like to wear:Will have to find out. I only have had it happen two or three times.
Include sex and orgasm:Always
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Over the masters lap, Handcuffed to bed
Implement:Hand, Newspapers
Pain level:Just Red