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I am so very tired of weeks and months of endless emails, but not ever having my willing ass spanked to show for it, or my willing body ever whipped good and hard. So I now have a new policy. One-only email exchange. Maybe two. Then, if we are not spanking and whipping one another on a regular basis, I will be so gone-baby-gone. How's that for an opening? Insanity is defined as endlessly doing the same thing over and over, but expecting a different outcome. I have stopped being driven insane by unproductive keyboarding. Endless typing typing typing hasn't yet got me spanked. The only pain I have to show for all the emails I have been getting (and writing) is the back-breaking labor of moving all those boxes of printouts around. No more. There are tons of things to talk about before getting married, and before starting to make babies together. And if we can't do our talking eyeball to eyeball in a public restaurant (for starters), and then quickly graduate to our mutual spanking and whipping bed (for me, sex comes AFTER marriage, not before), then why waste each other's time? If my ass isn't going to get blistered right away, it never will. If I can't feel the delightful sting of the lash across my back-side and my front-side right away, then what's this all about, anyway? It would seem that the flesh is willing, but the spirit seems to be weak. So a new broom is now sweeping away keyboards left and right. Show me your spanking paddles and your whips, just before you use them on me quite liberally, or my so-willing body will disappear forever. OK?

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Appearance

EthnicityCaucasian / White
National heritageAmerican
BuildA few extra pounds
Height191 cm
Eye ColorBlue
Hair ColorGrey
Hair LengthShort
Facial HairGoatee
Best featureButt
Body ArtNone
Health ConditionDiabetes
Endowment (length)Average
Endowment (width)Average

Situation

Relationship StatusWidowed
Has childrenNo children
Wants kidsYes
Housing SituationThere is no noise
Living ArrangementsAlone
Wants to RelocateNo
AvailabilityMy Place
Has a carYes

Education & Employment

EducationProfessional - Technical - Vocational School
SpecialtyComputers / Electronic
Employment StatusRetired
Annual incomeup to $25,000
Job Titlefired-and-retired

Looking For

I prefer:Intelligence, Humor, Great skills, Empathy, Sensitivity, Boldness, Spontaneity, Power, Flirtatiousness, Wit, Thoughtfulness
My perfect matchsomeone who will actually whip me, and enjoy doing it, not just talk about it
Our first datea lengthy whipping of me in my home in Dallas, either before or after my serious spanking.

BDSM Preferences

I'm turned on byUnsure / New to this lifestyle, A combination of all, Sadism / Masochism (S&M), Bondage / Discipline (B&D), Domination / Submission (D&S)
My role isMasochist
I am seekingA lifetime relationship (LTR)
I live the lifestyleNew to it & want exposure
Experience levelBeginner
I enjoyBondage, Branding, Breast / nipple torture, Candle wax, Chastity devices, CBT (cock & ball torture), Femdom, Genital torture, Hot wax, Power exchange, Spanking, Suspension, Whipping
Open To Photos & VideosDepends on the partner
My most pleasurable encounter washasn't happened yet. people only seem to want to talk on the internet.

Sexual Activities

I enjoy sex:Rarely, so I'm looking!
Sex isAlways on my mind
Most partners at once:Only one on one
Dirty talkTurns me on
Night life:Movies

Sexual Interests

CybersexNo, I need the real thing
Oral Sex isNever tried it
Anal sex isNever tried it
Sex toys:Cock ring
Size matterNo, Not at all

Spanking Preferences

Kind of spanking:Hard with hand or implement
Use safety words:Always
Turns me on:Watch spanking porn, Read spanking stories, I'm always in the mood, Be scolded and told that I've been bad, Being sent to a room to wait, The Closure / Forgiveness, Being Told to Remove Pants, Being Told to Assume the Position, Being Told to Fetch the Implement, Be surprised and taken without any warning
Include sex and orgasm:Depends on my partner
Positions:OTK - Over the knee, Lying face down, Over a chair / bed / desk, Hands bracing ankles or knees, Over the masters lap, Head or waist between legs, Kneeling on something with hands on floor, Bent under the arm, Lying on back with legs raised towards chest, Handcuffed to bed, Tied to doorway, Tied to something outside in a safe area, Legs in splits position, Other
Implement:Hand, Cane, Riding Crop, Switch (rod), Birch, Rulers / Martinet, Hairbrush, Belt, Wooden Spoon, Tawse, Other
Response:Tears
Pain level:No limits

Femdom Preferences

Intensity level:I relish in regular discipline
I'm seeking:Long Term relationships with play
Desired Persona:Leather Bitch from Hell
I like to wear:Other
Ideal session:she spanks hard, whips enthusiastically, and laughs while caning me. I scream, but never use my safety word, so she enjoys herself until she gets tired or bored. Daily.
Ultimate femdom fantasy:someone who actually tortures me daily instead of merely talking about it on the internet. also (no fantasy) electric irons are fun. and branding is a distinct possibility. now, are you serious, or just a talker?